Sometimes the reason we feel full of frustration is we're trying to change things that only God can change. You can't change people and make them do what's right. You can pray for them and encourage them, but they have their own free will. Don't let them steal your joy. You are not responsible for other people's happiness. You cannot keep everyone in your life happy. I don't mean that you should live selfishly, but too often we take on a false sense of responsibility. We think we have to keep everyone happy—our spouse and children, our neighbors, cousins, and coworkers. I've learned that some people don't want to be happy. They just want your attention. They want you to come running every time they call. If you don't, they try to make you feel guilty because you're not meeting their demands. What they really want is to control you...

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